What’s the secret? Why is it so difficult to find a life partner to get to this? To still love someone after years and years together, exactly the same as the first day. Just like a song, how can you still love it after years and years? Nobody knows, but you actually do.

When it comes to love, we want it all: sparks, butterflies and that feeling of being obsessed with another person. But we also want lasting love, security and healthy routines.

The problem with having these desires is that they cannot normally be satisfied simultaneously. What makes you feel head-over-heals in love is in part newness, insecurity and unpredictability.

But most long-term relationships do not have a whole lot of newness, insecurity and unpredictability. Long-term relationships are not meant to be built on an unstable foundation. They are meant to be your secure base, the place you return to for support when you are experiencing problems at work or go through illness or loss. ( https://bit.ly/34UYYyc )

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